Sunday, November 3, 2013

Holidays and Gifts



After reading both of the student essays, I would have to say I agree with Amel Saleh. However, both authors had valid arguments and backed up there opinions with good examples. I believe materialistic items consume the holiday season when it should really be focused on family. By giving children pricey toys and top of the line clothing, what are we really teaching them? It seems like this would hurt a child more than help a child. Spending excess amounts of money on materialistic items sets a bad example on kids. They will think by having these items this will describe them or give them some sort of superior rank or social status. In my family we do give gifts but if it was up to me I would rather not. Because of this, sometimes the holidays are hard for me. Every year family and friends ask me what I want for Christmas and the answer is always the same “Thanks, but I really don’t need anything.” However, when Christmas comes around I still always receive gifts. The gifts I appreciate most are the ones that are from the heart, the ones that are homemade such as a knitted beanie or a drawing/painting etc. Most people think gift giving is the best way to show others you are being thought of and loved but I don’t think that’s true. People should love and appreciate you for who you are not for who has the most expensive gift. 

8 comments:

  1. Hi! I agree with you that girls should be from the heart. It is good that your family still give you gifts when you say you don't want anything.

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  2. I enjoy receiving personalized gift as well. Maybe you can start giving personalized gifts too! That way you don't get pressured buying gifts for your love ones.

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  3. A gift that is hand made makes a bigger impact to those we love.

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  4. I also agreed with Saleh! You're totally right when you say gifts from the heart are always better.

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  5. You're absolutely right that all these kids receiving expensive gifts think that they are on top of everyone else. I like how you said that you appreciate the gifts that are simple and homemade.

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  6. I am happy to read that you think that gifts should come from the heart. I also agree with you when you say that kids these days get expensive gifts so they think they are better than everyone else.

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  7. I think the same thing about people being appreciative about presents that come from the heart and not from your wallet. Giving gifts gives a very different meaning now.

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  8. Most of the time, the gives that come from the heart are way more valuable than the ones bought so expensive. Now, kids are more fasinated in receiving the more expensive gifts.

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